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Couple's Program Reunites Families
Help with necessities provides stability
Article from Indianapolis Star October 2001
By Michelle Austein (staff writer)
Peter and Leanda Walls have become a court of last resort
for parents who have lost almost everything, even their children.
Parents seek the Wallses' help after the court system puts their children
in foster care because of alleged abuse, neglect or other instability
in the home. It becomes the parents' responsibility to show they can be
reliable.
"Parents need someone to make their lives stable," said Peter
Walls, founder of Time Out for Parents, a program that provides tools
for creating a stable home - employment, housing, food and transportation.
Time Out for Parents Is funded by the Wallses in collaboration with the
nonprofit HarrisonBrook Life Enhancement Center, an Indianapolis group
that helps adults with disabilities.
Since its founding in March 2000, Time Out for Parents has reunited 14
families.
"We give them the decent clothing, food and items they need to make
them part of society," Walls said.
Parents are referred through a number of organizations, including the
county Office of Family and Children, with which Time Out for Parents
works to restore visitation rights.
The Wallses and three other volunteers are helping 10 families. Three
of the families are living in furnished, rent-free homes; the group is
providing help with repairs and maintenance for other families who remain
in other homes.
"A home atmosphere gives (the families) a normal lifestyle,"
Walls said.''It gives inspiration to the mom and gets children excited
to visit the family."
The program helps parents find employment and provides help in handling
finances.
When Elizabeth Crudup, 37, entered the program last July, she was unemployed
and living with her sister. Time Out for Parents provided Crudup with
a furnished four-bedroom home and helped her apply for jobs.
Before Crudup's children were placed in foster care, the family was sleeping
in the parents' lounge of Riley Hospital for Children. Now Crudup's children
- Raquel, 3, Rachelle, 2, and Rafael, 10 months - visit her in her new
home.
The staff also makes sure parents attend courtmandated classes. Time Out
for Parents will pay for them if necessary. But it is up to the parents
to complete the course.
"We try to keep them from depending on us, Walls said. "We point
them in the right direction."
Volunteers took Crudup to her first two courtmandated classes.
"I needed someone behind me," Crudup said. "If you let
them know you're sincere, they will stand by you 100 percent."
Crudup has finished her classes and anticipates having full custody of
her children.
The average parent stays with the program until regaining custody, which
generally takes 30 to 90 days.
All of the families who have left the program have kept custody of their
children.
"Once the children are placed back in the home," Walls said,
"you see the determination of the parents to keep those children."
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